

Another man might have trouble making love to a woman while her husband not only watches but gives him pointers. But Leonardo DiCaprio was cool with it.
“I couldn’t have been more comfortable with the situation,” the actor said Wednesday at lunch when we asked him about his sex scenes with Kate Winslet in “Revolutionary Road.”
Even though Winslet’s beloved, Sam Mendes, was overseeing the simulated passion from his control booth, DiCaprio said, “I didn’t think about it.”
DiCaprio and Winslet, who play an unhappy Connecticut couple in the 1950s, got to know each other playing doomed lovers in “Titanic.” “We’d done a lot of sequences like that before,” he added. “So this time it was kind of easy.”
Winslet, who also had a nibble at the Plaza Hotel’s Oak Room, allowed that “initially, I was very worried it would be difficult to concentrate [on the sex]. But Leo was fine with it, which relaxed me. And I never sensed Sam feeling awkward. Quite the opposite. He’d yell from the other room: ‘Press your hand into her back more! And when you take her face, really grab it!’
“Maybe if it had been anyone else but Leo, it would have been weird. But we’re not really like grownups. We’re like two little boys.”
She might get an argument on that last point – her shapely body is anything but boyish. You also see it in “The Reader.” In that film, which had its New York premiere Wednesday night, she plays a former Nazi concentration camp guard who has an affair with a younger man who doesn’t know about her past. The criticism has been made that the couple’s sex scenes trivialize the Holocaust.
“There is a lot of nudity in the beginning,” she argued. “But it’s 100% justified. Also, the relationship is not about sex. It’s about how this young man reads her beautiful stories and poetry.”
As for the curves she showed in Steven Meisel’s photo spread in Vanity Fair, Winslet said, “Anyone can look like that with lighting and hair and makeup. I didn’t work out beforehand. I can’t remember the last time I’ve been to the gym. I don’t have the time. I’m a busy mom promoting two movies. That’s enough of a workout!”
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