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HE most talked-about twosome in Hollywood are talking with a couples counselor to resolve their escalating problems, an insider told Page Six.

Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson “are fighting like cats and dogs,” according to our source. “They fight every day, screaming, crying and yelling at each other.

“Sam and Lindsay are still very much together and very much in love, but drama just seems to follow Lindsay, and Sam hates it. She deals with Lindsay every day. And every day for Sam means questioning, ‘Is this worth it?’ ”

Page Six spies saw Lohan and Ronson get into a spat outside of Citrine on West 21st Street recently, and the London Sun published details of a explosive argument this week outside Boujis in London, where Ronson was deejaying. The paper reported “all hell broke loose” and the the screaming match ended with Lohan “in tears.”

On Nov. 4, a video posted online showed Lohan, 22, snapping at Ronson, 31, to “pull the car up, Sam” in front of a slew of fotogs. “Lindsay is high-maintenance and a lot to deal with,” another insider divulged. “And Sam has always dealt with her. But it isn’t easy.”

Lohan – who insists she is not a lesbian despite her relationship with Ronson – “will go straight back to guys” if she and Ronson do split, said one source. Rumors of her flirting with Chase Crawford and her ex-boyfriend Calum Best add fuel to the combustible situation.

“The things they argue about have to do with their age difference,” said our insider. “But no matter what happens, at the end of the day, they are always fine.”

A rep for Lohan said only that she’s unaware of any therapy sessions.

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Lindsay Lohan and DJ Samantha Ronson

Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson have hit a rocky patch in their relationship -just weeks after going public with their romance.

The Hollywood pair, who have been inseparable for months, are said to be drifting apart and bickering on a daily basis.

Insiders tell MailOnline DJ Ronson has made it clear to that she wants Lohan to step out of the limelight amid fears the actress may have lapsed back into her old partying ways.

The comparatively low-key Ronson is also said to feel ‘smothered’ by all the attention Lohan pays her and is anxious to step away from the media spotlight.

A source said: ‘Sam needs her space away from Lindsay and really needs to take a long look at what the future of this relationship can be.

‘Sam’s friends have been saying for a while that Lindsay still likes men as well as women. And for Lindsay’s part, she’s still caught up in her partying ways.

‘Samantha doesn’t need that in her life, not now, not ever. If these two are going to be together for the long term, Lindsay is the one who’s going to have to change, calm down, and get real. Sam’s made that very clear to her.’

The source continued: ‘Clearly, they were spending a little too much time together, and Samantha was the one who said Lindsay was getting in the way, and even acting obsessive at times.

‘Samantha DJ’ed three big parties around the Emmy weekend in Los Angeles, and Lindsay was practically on top of her for every minute of those gigs. Lindsay was behaving in a very smothering way.

‘For a man or a woman, it can be hard when your girlfriend insists on going to work with you every day.

‘The problem here is that Samantha is intent on being taken seriously as a DJ, and the Lindsay sideshow was starting to overwhelm that.’

Two weeks ago Lohan and Ronson looked blissfully happy together as they holidayed in Mexico.

But the break wasn’t simply a lovers’ getaway.

The source said: ‘The vacation was all about fixing their relationship, because things had gotten dicey in late August and early September as Lindsay and Sam were just getting so much attention – so much that they needed to get out of the country for a while.

‘But things didn’t go well in Mexico. Despite the photos of them playing on the beach, Sam said things were very tense between them when they got back.

‘She’s known for being shy, but what she’s less known for is being a very serious and thoughtful person, and there have always been these second thoughts about how she comes across being in this high profile ‘celebrity romance’.

‘It’s never been something Sam’s been willing to embrace the way Lindsay does. Going to Mexico kind of confirmed a lot of that stuff for Sam.’

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After months of refusing to comment on the public speculation about their relationship, actress Lindsay Lohan and DJ Samantha Ronson finally publicly confirmed their relationship in a L.A. radio call-in show last night, in a short, casual exchange confirming that they’ve been together “a very long time.”

Lohan and Ronson called into the radio show Loveline last night to chat with DJ Ted Stryker about DJ AM’s recent survival of a plane crash that killed four other passengers.

In wrapping up the conversation, Stryker casually asked Lindsay on air, “Now, you guys, you and Samantha have been going out for how long now? Like two years? One year? Five months? Two months?” Lohan responded, “A long…a very long time.”

“I hope you guys stay together, you’re a very lovely looking couple,” Stryker added, to which Lindsay replied, “Thank you very much.”

Lohan and Ronson are among only a handful of high-profile American celebrities in same-sex relationships, including women like Ellen DeGeneres, Portia de Rossi, Cynthia Nixon, Sarah Paulson, Cherry Jones, Suze Orman, Heather Matarazzo,Leisha Hailey, and Michelle Paradise. At 22 and 31, respectively, Lohan and Ronson are among the youngest out lesbian celebrity couples in America.

In a editorial on AfterEllen.com last week called “Lindsay Lohan and the New Definition of ‘Out’”, we profiled Lohan and Ronson as an example of a new wave of same-sex couples who are re-defining the notion of what being “out” means.

Lohan and Ronson have accompanied each other almost everywhere for over two years now, attend public events together, wear matching rings, kiss in public, and have had their relationship captured in countless photographs. They have even spoken out together against Gov. Sarah Palin’s anti-gay stance.

They have done everything but verbally confirm their relationship — until now.

But does acknowledging the relationship with words still matter in an era in which the grocery-shopping, event-attending, ring-wearing and hand-holding behavior of same-sex couples is now reported on almost as often as heterosexual couples?

While saying it out loud is arguably no longer a requirement to being out, words still have power — especially to the vast majority of straight Americans for whom the presumption of heterosexuality is so great they simply won’t believe a same-same relationship is true unless it is openly declared.

This is one of the reasons Ellen de Generes and Portia de Rossi’s “Wal-Mart wedding” makes such a difference — it makes the romantic nature of their relationship both appealing and unavoidable to mainstream America.

Lohan’s simple and low-key verbal confirmation of what most lesbian and bi women already knew may well do the same for a younger generation.

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Samantha Ronson is amazed at the public interest in her relationship with Lindsay Lohan.

Ever since the two (who just returned from Miami Beach) began dating earlier this year, she says she’s been getting flooded with questions.

“Even the airport security guy in Canada asked me, ‘So is it true?’” Ronson, 31, says in the September issue of Harper’s Bazaar. “It’s like, ‘Oh, yeah, I’m telling you.’”

Of Lohan, Ronson said, “She’s great. She’s also 22 years old. I think people forget that.

“With the Internet the way it is, one second we’re enemies, one second we’re best friends, one second we’re lovers, and then we’re broken up,” she added.

In an e-mail to Bazaar, Lohan wrote, “I love the Ronsons. They’re close to my [heart] and I respect all the work they do.”

As for her romance with Ronson, she wrote: “Samantha and my relationship is a private matter.”

The actress recently lashed out at a Los Angeles police chief who tried to “out” their relationship.

Chief William Bratton said the paparazzi has tamed down since Lohan had “gone gay.” (He later denied making the comment.)

“Police chiefs shouldn’t get involved in everyone else’s business when it comes to their personal life,” Lohan snapped. “It’s inappropriate.”

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